By: Napaporn Trivitvareekul

Hi-Lights : 

• The research result from PayScale website shown that based on a survey of 42,000 office workers, only 6% that got married with their colleague and 15% also admitted that they used to date with their colleague. And for person with age above 30 years old, 84% is open to go out with their colleague.
• True love does not rely on what gender you are, but it is about who you fall in love with and does it hurt someone else. Do you think that love that starts from a mistake or unfaithful will become a good one? Stealing him from someone may cause you also end up being stolen by someone else.

Q: I have a question that I have been in this secret relationship at the office for 4-5 months, but he has a boyfriend. I tried to break up with him, but I could not. He told me to wait for him. I want to but his action seems to show that he is still in love with his boyfriend. Should I wait? 

A: I once read about the research result from PayScale website shown that based on a survey of 42,000 office workers, only 6% that got married with their colleague and 15% also admitted that they used to date with their colleague. And for a person with age above 30 years old, 84% is open to go out with their colleagues. 

Actually, this is not a surprise issue because we spend almost three-quarters of a day in the office. It is okay if you are dating while having conscious. You may have found the love of your life and the more you meet and longer dating, the more you will fall in love. Otherwise, you may find the one that makes you lonelier and more hurt because he/she is not the one. Anyway, loving someone means you have to be prepared for any uncertainty. At least you will not be too rush and you can fully take care of each other while time is still yours. However, preparing is a must! Loving in the office is the hardest because when it comes to an end, you have to be recovered soon enough to move on.