Find “The Right One” by Speed Dating

Why is it so hard to find the boyfriend/girlfriend at this working age?

Where to find the boyfriend/girlfriend?

How did they meet?


These are the examples of topics which are created in public web board and timeline illustrate many of the ugly truths of boring daily activity of working man/woman. Due to they meet only the same faces every day and has no chance to meet a new one is one of the reason why they may feel lonely. This may be the time to open their mind and get new people in life. But how can they meet the others because of their busy schedule and have no time at all.

“Speed Dating” or what we may called as “Express date” which started to be more popular in single people market as the couple arrangement service in Thailand. It has begun from United States of America which arrange a meeting for many single men and women to meet and find their right one.

How does it different from normal dating?

The outstanding part of Speed Dating is all single men and women who join this event will eventually meet each other. Firstly, they will sit as a couple, introduce themselves and talk for about 5 minutes, then there is an ending time signal and all men will move to their right to talk with the next woman for the next round. They continue doing this until all of them has been talking. There is a scorecard to input the score for each date.

The prominent of Speed Dating

The pros of Speed Dating are to meet new date in a short time and most of their age are nearly to each other, the same lifestyle and intend to find “The right one”. Once they meet and feel that he/she is “right” which they may feel it is no need to talk for that long. So, they can go out together. While if they do not feel good, they can say no and end the talk after 5 minutes. No need to force themselves to keep going in those relationship and find new date.


Do & Don’t of Speed Dating

The most important thing before joining Speed Dating is being yourself whether dressing, etiquette, and be good at who you are. Otherwise, it would be fake which our date may get confused and you cannot find your perfect match.

Another warning is do not expect too high, because you may feel disappointed. Joining Speed Dating is a fun activity that can encourage you to have a good time with new people.

Because Speed Dating purpose is to meet a new date in a short time, so you need to understand and know what you are looking for. You should prepare some questions or share your interest to create an impressive environment which are concerned with your interest such as hobby, favorite dish, interesting place, or favorite movie. 

Finally, do not forget to listen to other couple conversation because you may miss the important part from the opposite. Being a good listener help you find the most “right” one.

Can we find the “right” one in just 5 minutes?

Many people may doubt that is Speed Dating help? From New York Times statistics show that Speed Dating participator average founding the “right” one was around 2-3 out of 10 couples while online dating was only about 1 out of 10 or less. Moreover, from “Science of Love” research from BBC shows that only 90 seconds to 4 minutes face-to-face conversation is enough to be fond of someone. Therefore, Speed Dating is so interesting.

It is true that “Love” and “Soulmate” are destiny but to open your mind and meet someone new will also increase a chance of destiny