Friends and we fall in love with the same person, should we continue or stop

By: Napaporn Trivitvareekul


Hi-Light:

  • Must be mindful and open enough. We do not own anyone, and he still doesn't give a heart. That means even if it's not our friend, he also could choose anyone. Can make us heartbroken anyway.

  • The wrong one is not the right one. Doing good will get a good result but perhaps not someone’s heart. Put a lot of effort but love may not be there. Whoever you love, you must spare your heart. Importantly, do not ruin the job because of this. Don’t get a boyfriend and lost the job. It's too torture


There is a survey that people of this age will focus on a subject in just 18 minutes. In many offices try to reduce the time of the meeting to no more than 1 hour. Just core issues, or else will not benefit from that meeting at all.


Therefore, must always remind us to be patient, slow down, do not look forward to forgetting even the person next to you. The swiftness may make us forget tenderness, or really, we may not be this generation.


8 minutes is too little time. But when we pay attention to something, we will always have time for that. For example, answering each email is the same.
 

“P’ Oi, I have worked here for 2 years. Last year, my best friend since my school days came to work at the same place. We are both so happy. For a while, I start having problems. I like one of my senior’s co-worker in the same department, and all my friends know about this. But later, my friends also like this same person as well. I talked to him before, even knowing that he may not feel the same. But still deeply hoping that he will sympathize


But the thing that I'm still confused is my close friends like the people that I like as well. He often chats to that person. And then came to be shy even though I still like him. And friends know that I crazy about this person.


I just want to know what I must do, step back and withdrawn or what to do. Because we still must work in the same department. "

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Calm down first. "People" are not "items" that you just pick them up when you want. Must ask him first if he chooses to like who.

 

You said by yourself that the person you like doesn't probably like you. That's why you must ask him too. If he doesn't have a girlfriend. Everyone has the right to look at him. Even your own friend.


Must be mindful and open enough We do not own anyone. He still doesn't fall in love with anyone. That means even if it's not your friend, he also can choose anyone. This can make you heartbroken anyway. 


Suppose I like Gong Yoo and know that my friend also like him and want to get him. Why do we want to fight? Why? In the end, we will all damaged. Will Gong Yoo you realize that he is making two friends mad at each other?


For example, just this is if the person you like also like you. Even though your friends were very flirtatious with him. 


If he is not interested in her then nothing will happen. Don't break relationships with friends. On the day that we would not step to be a girlfriend with someone we like. Or if the end he likes your friend, she is not wrong anyway. Because the person he likes, even without having to walk to him first. He probably looking out for her. The right woman in his heart If not you, then you must accept it anywhere.


The wrong one is not the right one. Doing good will get a good result but perhaps not someone’s heart. Put a lot of effort but love may not be there. Whoever you love, you must spare your heart. 


Importantly, do not ruin the job because of this. Don’t get a boyfriend and lost the job. It's too torture.


She can talk to him and you can talk to him as well. He must choose who is the right one. Not bothering him to sympathize.
 

Love is not to make merit, unnecessary to pity. If seeing the value, then move forward together. If not, there will be new persons for us to like again. Do not give much priority to the relationship that is not clear.


Like him makes the heartbeat fast and work diligently. If not, then disperse. If going forward, must not rush until he is shocked. You still can't do it right now. Accept all the truth.

Who knows now, regardless of whether you will continue walking or just enough? This may not have any effect on his heart.

Give him as much as you have and feel as good as you can.

Like you, it's my thing. If you not in with this, it’s your choice.

That’s it